Monday, April 20, 2009

Sheena & Alex's Calgary Wedding

Happy Monday!!

I was super excited to receive photo candy from Rafal of RW Photo of Sheena and Alex's wedding. Thanks Rafal! To see more of Rafal's stunning work, visit his website and his blog.


How adorable are the bride's shoes?!!! I so want!




I love funky ring shots.

What a gorgeous day.

Oh la la! C'est trés sexy!

A few details from the reception.....



....and a parting shot.

Congratulations Sheena & Alex!

Sunday, April 19, 2009

I'm in love.....


I was out and about today enjoying the sunny spring day and this lovely French Connection 'spot the dot' dress caught my eye. Love at first sight. Unfortunately, the pocketbook thought differently. :( Sigh. At least I know spring is here and summer is not far behind. yay!

Today is the last day of the Bluefly.com Spring Sale. Up to 65% off! I recently purchased something from Bluefly and they gave me a 10% off $100 promo code, which I won't be using. If you're interested, let me know and I'll email you the code.

Saturday, April 18, 2009

My Two Pet Peeves

I'm sure if you asked the BF what my pet peeves are, he'd give you more than 2. ;) However, the 2 that stick out in my mind are:

1. Movie Poster Book Covers

Let me explain by showing an example:

Images via Hachette Book Group

Don't get me wrong, I loved the movie (who didn't really) but why did they have to change the original cover?! I know, I know, it's about publicity and promotion. I'm sure there are numbers that show that sales of the movie poster version are greater than the original cover version during the movie's theatrical run (and afterward). However, I will always buy the original cover version.

2. When a Couple Chooses a Sad Love Song as 'Their Song' (or their First Dance)

My lovely sister loves, loves the song 'Iris' by the Goo Goo Dolls. I agree, great song. She chose it for her 'first dance' at her wedding, despite the fact I told her it's the opposite of 'happy-I love you-want-to-be-with-you-forever-we're-going-to-be-happy-forever' feeling that a first dance should evoke.

To refresh your memories, here's the video for Iris:


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And here are a couple of verses of lyrics from Iris:

And I don´t want the world to see me
´Cause I don´t think that they´d understand
When everything´s made to be broken
I just want you to know who I am

And you can´t fight the tears that ain´t coming
Or the moments of truth in your lies
When everything feels like the movies
And you bleed just to know you´re alive.

Fight the tears? When everything's made to be broken? Sorry, not phrases I want to hear on my wedding day, or to symbolize 'our love.'

Other sad songs that fit into this category:

Every Breath You Take - The Police
Smoke Get Into Your Eyes - Various Artists
I'll Be (Your Crying Shoulder) - Edwin McCain
I Will Always Love You - Whitney Houston
One - U2
Bed of Roses -Bon Jovi
Unchained Melody - Righteous Brothers

*If one of these is 'your song' or your 'first dance' song, my apologies, I didn't meant to offend. Ignore my ramblings. After all its YOUR song/day, not mine. :)



Kim and Trevor's 'Highlights' Video


kimmie + trevor's highlights // toronto from StillMotion on Vimeo.

You've seen the Same Day Edit (SDE) that StillMotion prepared for Kim and Trevor's wedding. Now you can see their 'Highlights' video. What's the difference you ask? Here is the explanation provided by StillMotion on its blog......

"[H]ere is a brief rundown between the two clips. SDEs tend to be a bit flashier, using more detail shots (ie rings) and photo session footage to increase the visual impact at your reception. [T]he storyline, while very important, is not something we can baby with so little time and so it is often developed less than in a highlights clip. [T]here are also a lot of shots here and there that we can't get into the SDE because we can't review everything and awesome things inevitably happen after the SDE is ready to be shown.

[A] highlights clip on the other hand will have a much more developed storyline. the soundtrack is often more timeless (this always depends on who the couple is though). [w]e can be sure to review absolutely everything before starting, and it is something we can go back and tweak endlessly before it is released to the world. there are more subtleties in a highlights clip, and that makes them fun to explore over and over (not to say those aren't there in SDEs, just more so in highlights)."

I think both turned out incredibly well, but I do like the 'flashier' SDE better. Which one do you prefer?

Friday, April 17, 2009

Vote for A Hot Pink Petticoat!

How cute are these bubblebum bouquets? The lovely Alison from A Hot Pink Petticoat made these and has entered her DIY project into VintageGlamWeddings' DIY contest.

If Alison wins, she will host a giveaway herself! So go on, head over to VintageGlamWeddings and vote for Alison (she's Entry#4)! Voting ends at 11:59pm on Wednesday, April 22.

Frugal Fridays: Pre-loved Wedding Gowns

Happy Friday!

Here is a selection of pre-loved, sample and new wedding gowns currently residing in Canada. By purchasing a gown from a buyer located in Canada, Canadian brides can avoid paying those pesky customs fees associated with shipping from other countries. Also, if you're lucky enough to find a pre-loved gown in your city or in a city near you, you may be able to save on shipping costs by simply picking up your dress yourself! Click on the image to bring you to the related posting on either OnceWed.com or PreOwnedWeddingDresses.com.


Justina McCaffrey-Gaby - Ottawa, ON



Melissa Sweet - Dora - Cold Lake, AB



Amsale Blue Label - Vancouver, BC


Romona Keveza Legends (Sample!) - Toronto, ON


Amsale (Sample!) - Toronto, ON


Maggie Sottero - Colby-Halifax, NS


Melissa Sweet - Fern (NEW!)- Onondaga County, NY (close to the CDN border)


Mori Lee - 4163 (NEW!) - Toronto, ON

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Extraordinary San Diego


As you all know, I was in San Diego last week to attend my cousin's cruise ship wedding. I was super excited to be visiting San Diego for the first time. Mo from Pink Argyle was kind enough to give me a list of "must sees" and "must eats" for my day and half tour of the 2nd largest city in Cali. Unfortunately, due to some wishful thinking on my part, some unforeseen waiting between wedding events, and prior engagements in LA, the BF and I were left with just a few short hours after the wedding ceremony to explore (we elected not to sail away with the happy couple and their other guests). I was totally bummed. I quickly scanned Mo's list that I had made a point of saving on my CrackBerry, and tried to ascertain the one thing that I would regret not seeing or doing. Any guesses on what I picked? Hiking in Torrey Pines State Reserve? Dine at Hotel Del on Coronado Island (which, FYI, is where Mo got engaged)? Visit the famous Balboa Park?

Answer? None of the above. My friends, I know where my priorities lie. I decided to eat my way through Extraordinary Desserts. I knew the moment I read about it on Mo's list that I had to let my sweet tooth experience this 'extraordinary' dessert cafe.

The BF and I shared an amazing cheese plate.........

and a slice of their delectable 'Dulce de Leche' cake........

and washed it all down with warm, foamy lattes.

Then I thought about ordering one of these for the road.....

but ultimately decided that my jeans would not appreciate it. ;)

A very special thanks to Mo for all her wonderful advice. I'm saving it for future trips!

P.S. Extraordinary Desserts does wedding cakes! Check it out.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Kevin Lam Photography


Yesterday I posted some photo candy from Carol and Brian's wedding. Today, I'd like to introduce you to Carol and Brian's talented photographer, Kevin Lam Photography. Kevin is a wedding and lifestyle photographer based in Toronto, however, his art often takes him around the world. In fact, when I originally contacted him, Kevin was en route to shoot a wedding in the Caribbean! A big thank you to Kevin for allowing me to share Carol and Brian's wedding photos, and to 'interview' him. Read below for the 'inside scoop' on engagement portraits, trash the dress sessions and photo tips for the big day!

How did you get into photography? How long have you been shooting weddings?

I’ve always been fascinated by photography. I’m drawn to the stories that photojournalists and documentary photographers create through still images. The power of these stories is still something that very much moves me and is perhaps my biggest inspiration.

When I was growing up I guess I was one of the artistic kids in class. I would constantly be sketching, doing computer art, and even trying to write music in my spare time. However, photography was just a secondary interest for me at that time. When photography underwent its digital revolution, that’s when my interest in photography really took hold. This year will be my third year photographing weddings and my second year doing it full-time. I am extremely fortunate to be doing something I love.


Do you have a favourite location for wedding/engagement portraits?

I can’t say that I have a single favourite location to photograph weddings or engagement sessions. We love working with the natural beauty found in places like the Bahamas or Niagara, ON. But we also really enjoy creating images in man-made environments with great light and architecture.

We’d really love to use more off-beat locations, instead of the usual park and flowers that so many couples seem to default to. I think beautiful and amazing wedding images can be created in places where you least expect.

This year we’re really looking forward to photograph at some really great venues, including the Hockey Hall of Fame, Canoe Restaurant on the 55th floor of TD Centre, and the U.S. Virgin Islands.


Many couples wonder if engagement pictures are necessary. What is your take on them?

Engagement sessions are definitely not a necessity. However, there are two reasons why I would highly recommend them. First and probably most important, is that it allows the couple to work together with their photographer before the wedding day. This is important because sometimes couples are not as comfortable in front of the camera as they would hope to be. By doing an engagement session you get the chance to work with your photographer and they also get to learn more about you and how you are in front of the camera.

The second reason I think engagement sessions should be considered by couples is that it gives them the opportunity to create some truly memorable images in a relaxed and casual setting, something that is usually not possible due to the nature of wedding days. An engagement session is something that all our couples seem to really enjoy.


"Trash the Dress" sessions are very popular right now. Can you explain what happens in a "Trash the Dress" session?

Despite what the name suggests, a “Trash the Dress” session is not solely about trashing your expensive wedding dress. It happens after the wedding, when you’ve already worn your dress for its intended purpose and you decide that you want to create some unique wedding images without worrying too much about whether the dress will get dirty or damaged. Since you free yourself of this worry, you and your photographer can really create something unique that normally wouldn’t be done during the wedding day. I’ve seen brides jumping into lakes, lying on the beach, and all sorts of things that most brides would dare not do on their wedding day. We haven’t had any of our former brides ask us about a Trash the Dress session yet. I guess they love their dresses too much!

Do you have tips for brides and grooms to ensure they don't run out of time for pictures on their big day? Any other advice?

There’s a lot going on during a wedding day and it’s always a good idea to lay everything out in a schedule and realistically see how much time you have for everything. If you aren’t very good at staying on time, then a wedding coordinator or good friend can really help you stay on track.

From the photographer’s perspective, we think it’s important to scout out the venue and photo locations beforehand. When we do that we can start brainstorming some ideas and figure out the best places for photo opportunities. We also like to attend rehearsals so that we know how the ceremony will unfold. On the wedding day there are no retakes, so it’s important that we don’t miss anything that we should have captured. It also gives us the opportunity to introduce ourselves to the families and bridal party before the wedding day.

Wedding days are hectic and there isn’t much room for fumbling around. We think that it’s important that photographers does their homework to ensure that everything moves efficiently on your big day!

To see more of Kevin's work, please visit Kevin Lam Photography. You can also follow Kevin on Twitter @ kevinlamphoto.

Spring 2009 Alvina Valenta Trunk Show

Known for her ultra feminine gowns adorned with romantic details, Alvina Valenta is one of three bridal designers under the Jim Hjelm Couture umbrella. One unique advantage Alvina Valenta has over other bridal collections is the array of colours her gowns come in. Eggshell, Oyster, Vanilla, Champagne, Creme, Rum Pink, Dove - just to name a few.

Here are a few of my faves from the Spring 2009 line.

And here is my all time favourite Alvina Valenta gown:


WHEN?

April 17, 2009 -April 26, 2009

WHERE?
L & J Bridal
50 Queen Street East, Brampton, ON
tel: (905) 459-9370
email: ljbridalboutique@bellnet.ca
website: www.landjbridal.com

To see more of Alvina Valenta's Spring 2009 collection, visit www.jlmcouture.com/Alvina-Valenta

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Frugal or Tacky?

Check out this site, "Help me Pay for My Wedding". This self-proclaimed "recessionista bride" is asking for donations for her upcoming nuptials.

I posted an article last week on how a bride bartered for her dream wedding. I think it's one thing to exchange goods or services and another to ask for a straight out 'donation.' Weddings can hardly be categorized as 'charities' or 'good causes.' This bride seems to missing the big picture here, non? Wonder what The Broke-Ass Bride, A $10,000 Wedding, A Practical Wedding, and Budget Savvy Bride (brides who have shared their clever ways of keeping wedding costs down) would say?

Would you donate? Is this bride being clever in her frugality? Or is she simply a clueless and tacky bride? Discuss.
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